How i Broke my Virginity

Virginity is one of the few things which when lost can never be gotten back. "Opportunity comes but once" is very pronounce in this discipline especially and  since it that memorable ; happenning only once in a lifetime, each person has only one virginity story which they can tell. So in the light of this,i have compiled various true virginity breaking stories for the young ones who are so much enthused about breaking theirs and to catch a glimpse of what really happens and and which myth they can debunk..

1st Story

My name is Erica and I lost my virginity just last week though I had promised myself I would never involve myself in such an act before marriage. It all began when we were given an assignment in class but since I wasn’t paying attention during class, the homework looked all gibberish to me. A close friend of mine, Aisha agreed to help out but prior to what I expected, I was supposed to be there by 6pm.

 I got there as stipulated but Aisha was nowhere to be found, as if by magic ,her parents too where not around, I  then decided to take a rest and watch T.V since I presumed I was the only one around, but lo and behold; her senior brother was standing right there at the door entrance.

 He asked me whether he could help out with the assignment and since a beggar has no choice I nodded in agreement. Within 30 minutes we were done with the assignment and used the rest of the hours just staring shyly at each other, he was 18 and I was 16 so technically we were in the same age group.

After about 2 hours of just staring innocently at each other, he made his first move :asked me what time it was though he clearly had a wrist watch on ,before I could say ‘Jack’ ,he was all over me kissing, God knows I could have resisted and pushed him away since he was not holding me that tight but trust me, I even liked it more than he did but since I was a girl I had to show some ‘girly’ traits by resisting small and hoping he wouldn’t let go.

 We kissed for about 15 minutes (that what I think cos I didn’t time us )..My mum once told me there were some part of the body that can never get satisfied including the lips, tongue, breast and genitals and I was now a  living example of that, we moved from kissing on the floor to the ground and then I could hear buttons going off and zips being moved, I never bothered because I was living in my fantasy world, swallowing the lips of a real boy and being smooched romantically

  After sometime, we were all literally naked and making out, he gushed out after just 2 minutes (the record has now being broken though),the fun part was over and I could see blood around and this freaked me out the more, we cleaned the place and shamefully with my face looking down, I took my books and headed straight home.

  I don’t regret breaking it at that time, my only regret was that I didn’t break it with the right person as I barely knew him; but it all good and memorable.

2nd story

I was almost always spending time with my boyfriend. It was his normal routine to come home from practice and call me right away. One day he did not call. No big deal, I called him. Something was off I couldn’t  tell at 1st but I knew there was something. This continued a few days in a row until I asked him what was going on. He had been acting strange at school and on the phone and I could tell I was losing him. Panic struck immediately I demanded him to tell me what was going on until he finally caved. HE WAS BREAKING UP WITH ME! I was devastated to say the least. I began sobbing and begging him to change his mind. He was also upset but he didn't know how to deal with ending this relationship. I can't blame him. He was young, tied down, and looking for freedom to do what normal 16 year old boys were doing. I began blaming myself and telling him that I wouldn't be so needy, that I couldn't lose him, I needed him and couldn't live without him. Honestly, it was pathetic. We were equally demanding of each other but in this instance I felt as if I were the only one to blame. It must have been something I did or said. But no, it came down to another girl on the track team that caught his interest. The worst kind of girl; Pretty AND nice!

I begged him to come over 1 day after school. No one was home n I knew if I could talk to him face to face that I could make things work. I wanted him to hold me and tell me everything would be ok. He showed up and I was crying, of course. He couldn't stand to see me so hurt and upset. He began kissing me and telling me everything was okay. (yes, my plan has worked!) So we went to my bedroom without saying a word about what was going to happen next. Never even discussed it but I knew what was going to happen and so did he. One thing lead to another and the next thing I know, I have lost my virginity to the guy who just broke up with me! I know what u are thinking. How could i do that? Why didn't you have sex while you were actually a couple? Or....you stayed strong for a year and a half and throw your virginity away when you aren't even together? Well, like I said, it was love and I would have done anything he wanted to keep him. Even if it meant losing my virginity.

3rd Story 

Am Nana Ama and I reside in Takoradi but school In KNUST, petroleum engineering year 3.

For me I wouldn’t say I was lucky but at least I was lucky enough to break my virginity with a guy I loved (though he later ditched me).It all happened when we completed our senior high school examinations and I was always the only one home. My dad is outside the country and my mum also has a store in town, whenever my guy comes to my house it either we sit outside in the compound of the house or we will just take a stroll around. However whether it was by fate or sheer luck on his side, we decided to go sit inside on one of his visits;

 I actually asked him to join me go inside this time round because I was seriously watching and focused on a Nigerian movie I had heard so much about but never got the chance to watch. He hesitated at first as we had promised ourselves never to go to the room alone, But they say “Wherever God has a church, the devil surely has a temple”. Ma idea was only to let him in so we watched the movie together but little did I know that the see-through sleeping gown I was wearing had become a movie for my boy to watch. He couldn’t keep his eyes off my dress and my nipple shape drawn on the dress was a banger for him.

   He kept on gazing ,cared less about the movie on the T.V set and then following his selfish desires moved closer to me, my attention was fully on the T.V and anything he did was just like a preacher man or pastor preaching in a mosque ;not important. He started off by kissing my fingers, then to my neck and GOSH when he got to my earlobes I had forgotten where I was, what I was watching and began imagining myself in a fantasy world. I didn’t move a muscle when he was doing his business, we then started kissing and time passed by, his hands was moving lower till he finally took off my sleeping gown, carried me to the room and whilst I was begging for more, he started putting his tongue wherever hole he could find. I got turned on quickly, removed his attire and we started having sex, didn’t take note of the time though and after quite sometime, we all got tired and I asked him to go home in an angry but somehow satisfied tone. Though my friends had been making much fuss about bleeding and stuffs, I realized for me ,it was just some drops and nothing more. We are not together though but I still cherish those times

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