My worst breakup Story

Statistics from a research shows that more than half of individuals between the ages of 15 and 25 have been involved in more than one breakup before.So breakups are normal happenings in our society and whether you like it or not,it either you break up with someone or u are broken up with;in either case a heart is broken and someone is disappointed. However just like a drug where we can have bitter and sweet ones,we have relationships which sometimes end with both parties being satisfied and there is also a breakup where it precedes with curses,sleepless night and hallucinations where everyone laughing is thought to be laughing at your woes. I must admit ,i have also been in about 3 or 4 relationships with some breakups been better than the others.I have thereby compiled real breakup stories which didn't so well. If yours is better than them,then u thank your God or the person who broke up with you..The stories are as follows;

1st Story

This guy i liked since I was a kid finally asked me out. I said yes.
FIVE YEARS LATER…
Prom night. I decide to loose my virginity to him. We were in love–so i thought. After Prom, we rush to the hotel room and do what we had planned. We spent three blissful nights together and I felt so much closer to him.
A YEAR LATER…
College. We are nineteen. He goes to a different college that is three hours away but we visit each other often. He suddenly stops visiting me and cuts off all contact with me for two weeks. In bewilderment, I drove to his college. His room-mate passed me the key to the room because he’s seen me a lot and still thinks we are together just like I did. He told me that my boyfriend told him he was going to relax in the dorm for most the day. I hurry to the dorm and open the door slowly only to find him having sex with my seventeen year old sister. I don’t thrash around the room, screaming and breaking his things, I lunge myself at my sister to attack her, I don’t even say a word.
Once I opened the door, he rolled off of her and she covered herself with the bed sheets and they stare at me in surprise. I was shocked, speechless and overwhelmed. He pulled his boxers on and started telling me how sorry he was, and that I was who he really loved and my sister gasped when he said that. His room mate suddenly appeared behind me because he forgot his textbook. “Holy shit…” was all he said. I began to laugh hysterically which freaked them out. I shrugged and said, “Carry on. I guess this is the best time to tell you that I’ve been sleeping with your room mate.” It was a lie. Of course I wasn’t. I never cheat. But it felt amazing to see the expression on his face when I told him. I closed the door and turned to his room mate. He and his room mate hated each other anyway so it didnt matter to him.
THREE YEARS LATER…
I am now with my ex’s room mate. I am not lying this time we pretended to be sleeping together to get to my ex and it was working. But it soon turned into real feelings so we decided to actually date. two years later we are still together. My ex still textes me from time to time to beg me to take him back. My sister apologized but I told her not to bother because I knew she was not sorry. I am in a healthy, happy relationship with my new bf (my ex’s college room mate) and he just recently proposed three days ago.
….I said yes

2nd Story 

My worst break-up was actually my own doing. My girlfriend and I were at her friend’s house celebrating the holiday. I got mad at her and towards the end of the party, she abruptly left without saying anything to me. I was so heated she got mad at me, when I was mad at her. So, I went home packed all of her stuff in my place and brought it to her place, gave her key back to her and asked for mine. I took the key and left. BIG MISTAKE!!! She was so upset about it, she didn’t call, like I thought she would for three or four days. I started missing her and called her and went over to her place, to try and get back together. Initially, she agreed to try again but two days later, after I came back from out of town, she broke it off! Which I realized later, she only wanted to flip the script on me and that was the reason she got back together. I tried a few days later to get back together again, but she wasn’t hearing it. In fact, she met another and slept with him the same night I left her place. I knew then she was unstable! They broke up after about six months. But it took me nearly three years to finally get over her, even though we only dated six months!!

         3rd Story

        In college I dated this guy that was from my hometown and went to another college about an hour from where I did. We dated for a few months and I realized it was not going to work. He was a total loser. (Like asking me for gas money when he drove to see me and always going dutch… on everything). So we broke up. Then on Valentine’s Day he shows up at my parent’s house with pink carnations and a box of candy hearts. (I hate pink carnations and the chalky hearts. Plus his appearance was because his present girlfriend had dumped him too). I already had plans to eat dinner with some friends so long story short I had to tell him again it was over and left him to meet my friends. When I got home my parents said he has spent the whole evening with them crying. Both of my parents knew I had ended the relationship weeks before and thought it was funny in a sad way. Even though it was years ago every year they still harass me about being heartless and leaving him crying with them on Valentine’s Day.

       4th Story 

             Worst break up ever just happend! My ex, who moved to another state a year before me asked me to move many times because the distance was just getting to be too much. He would fly me in every month and spend at a lot of money each month. I was suppose to move to another city for a job but he convienced me that that would make things worse for our relationship. So, my job offered to move me there instead and I moved me and my child there with him. I got my own place and things were fine until one day he just jumped out of bed while cuddling and said “this is the closest we are going to get you know”. From then on things got worse, and he told me that he wanted to take things slow and not rush into anything. I said ok because I assumed he was just scared since he had a very terrible split with his ex-wife many years ago.

Then he started to go to his families house and tell them he never asked me to move here, even though he paid for me to move and got my place. He also told them I was crazy and he never had plans for a future with me and how am rushing him into something even though I never said or asked. I am close to his family and they are the only people I know here so I hangout with his sister-in-law and family sometimes but I would always let him know if I was invited over. He came over his brothers and few times knowing I was already there and ignored me and told them later that he never said I can come over and he didnt want me around without his permission. When my birthday came around he text me and refuse to call or take me anywhere. Never showed me around the city or introduced me to anyone. I found out from his family later that he was saying things about me behind my back. Then after this, he started to treat me like dirt calling me name, ignoring me, telling me I need to be ‘shipped’ back and screaming and yelling me in public saying I mean nothing to him. When I would cry he would say my tears mean nothing to him and that he felt nothing for me. He told me he was seeing someone else then said he was talking to many women but one was special to him.

After all this he called me and said “Baby, is your tuition for grad school due and when ?” He called my school and paid 2K for my tuition and continued to help me financially as long as I gave him space, and I told him where to go! He then got real made and told me I need to pay him back for everything in a month, so I took out a loan and paid him his money back. He said just give him some space and I go my way and he go his way and later we get back together and try again and this is the best for us cause he needed to miss me to bring the spark back. I never agreed to this and just decided to not talk or deal with him. He has called my family, mutual friends, even my daughter and told them how crazy I am and how I took things too far. He told people he suggested me to move to get myself together, yet I made 75k more before I moved and had my own house. He has ruined my reputation back at home and down here. He tells them I am the most beautiful, smartest, and supportive women he knows, but Im not his type anymore cause Im weak. After this relationship I started to feel that I may just stay single for a while or maybe give out mental evaluations first.

Source:Curvy Girl Guide.htm

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